#145: Wednesday Martin – author and cultural critic - Sex, Female Infidelity, Monogamy, Why People Cheat, Desire, & Removing Sexual Misconceptions

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The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast#145: Wednesday Martin – author and cultural critic


( 2:00 ): Welcome back to TSC HIM & HER Show. This week we’re joined by Wednesday Martin to discuss sex, monogamy, female infidelity and much more.

( 8:45 ): Wednesday Martin is an author and cultural critic. She writes and talks about parenting, step parenting, female sexuality, motherhood and pop culture.


( 9:10 ): Lauryn asks, “What is a pussy whisperer?”

( 15:05 ): Michael asks, “What was your childhood like?”

( 16:45 ): Lauryn asks, “Was there a specific event that sparked your interest in sex?”

( 20:05 ): Michael asks, “Is sexuality a double standard or are people just uncomfortable?”

( 23:15 ): Michael asks, “What have you found in your research on infidelity?”

( 26:45 ): Michael asks, “What do you think about monogamy?”

( 30:55 ): Lauryn asks, “What are the benefits & limitations of monogamy?”

( 34:20 ): Lauryn asks, “Let’s discuss the importance of desire.”

( 41:45 ): Lauryn asks, “How are men misunderstood sexually?”

( 42:55 ): Michael asks, “What about the belief that children need monogamous parents?”

( 46:45 ): Lauryn asks, “What about 50 Shades of Gray?”

( 51:15 ): Michael asks, “People are not being honest with themselves. How do we open that up?”

( 55:45 ): Lauryn asks, “How is social media influencing sexuality?”


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+ My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
+ The New Monogamy by Tammy Nelson PhD
+ The Happy Hooker by Xaviera Hollander
+ Sula by Toni Morrison
+ Fear of Flying by Erica Jong
+ Mating in Captivity by Ester Perel
+ The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton

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